Ian Connor and the 21 accounts of rape against him, let's do the math. I have personally had a twitter battle with men who believe 21 women cannot be telling the truth about their relationship with Ian Conner. The heartache of being a woman. If you are female and have never been sexually assaulted you are among the rare few. How do you deal with the Accused Serial Rapist and Kanye West Employee? Fear is definitely a factor.