Dear Momma, Please Stop Coddling Your Son Your Ruining Our Relationship

If you haven’t noticed we started a new colum called  . Here we will discuss issues today’s women face in love, sex and life. Everything from what you do on a first date you meet on a dating app to how you are  feeling emotionally day to day.

I wanted to kick it off with a letter to mothers of sons. With a Dear Momma, letter.  When many of my friends and I get together over diner or drinks the conversation always turns to our love lives.  Weither  married, single or actively dating  the underlying theme is always his mother. Many of us are in a battle for attention from him with his mother.


Dear Momma, take the tit away. Regardless to what most people think men don’t want to marry their mothers or want a women who acts like his mother.  So Mom and girlfriends stop coddling him . Dear Mom, if your son didn’t come home  last night he’s probably having sex !

Why are you calling a grown man 30+ at two o’clock in the morning?
For that matter why haven’t to kicked him out the house?  He’s a grown man!  He does not need you to cook, clean and wash his clothes. He needs to learn how to have a relationship with someone he’s attracted to. The more you baby him the more he is a pain in my ass.
Men today who still live at home with their mommy only want sex. They don’t need anything else because you are coddling them.  Yet, you say you want them to find someone, but no one is ever good enough for your son and its your fault. Turn off the TV, and stop watching these programs that tell you that you are not supposed to have a good relationship with your daughter in law.  Because you are sabotaging his relationship.  Then you wonder why the end up with a bitch or total slut.   These type of women aren’t trying to be your friend they want wild sex and vacations. Not a weekly diner at mom’s. It’s your fault mommy dearest.
Former First Lady Michelle Obama said  it best whe she made the comment “men feel they are entitled and women protect them too much. ”  She told the first Obama Foundation international summit “men are raised to be babies while women are brought up to be strong.”
This is  why relationship’s today are having such a hard time   Men are having difficulty dealing with strong women. Women who want sex and occasional one night stands. So Dear momma, stop coddling your son so he can stand on his own and not look at women just as objects.   When he comes home late please believe he just got his dick sucked by one of these horrible women like me who wishes this hot guy still wasn’t attached to his mothers

About the author

Charlotte is an urban New Yorker who has lived in London, Paris & Morocco. She has an MBA in Management and Economics of Luxury Brands and Fashion and her BFA from the New School.
She calls herself the dyslexic writer living between London & Paris.
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